There was a time when we had a joint family culture.Women had less burden on their shoulders.But gone are those days.Nowadays nuclear family is in vogue.But has it given freedom to women? I believe it has bound them with more individual pressure because both husband and wife are working,small infants are left in the care of nannies and school going kids have to fend for themselves after school hours .It is here the need to spend time with family becomes essential.
 Spending time with family makes us forget our pressure, pain,stress and strain.We must remember that family is the closest bevy of people who can tackle our problems and resolve our issues because family knows us inside and outside.


Sometimes our trials and tribulations are so chaotic that we feel that these can't be resolved and we tend to become confused and lost.We need not cry alone because in our perplexed state we can't exercise our logic or reason.Discuss it with someone in the family with whom you feel comfortable to share your anxiety.Today,every second person is very close to his or her friend instead of relatives.But some people feel the reverse of it.In the time of stress, converse with your friend or relative.Sharing our agony with an intimate friend serves as a 'Talking Cure'.We shall feel relieved.In fact women are more talkative by nature and they share more with trusted and tested friends who are capable of bringing smile on their face.
Keep in mind that only you know with whom to share or trust,who can keep your secret intact.Don't share with some neighbor,it is better to keep patience than converse with a person with whom you have a bitter relationship.Outsiders take advantage of your problems.Never disclose your woes with those you don't trust.Moreover sometimes we get unhappy over trivial issues such as our kids not scoring marks as per our expectations or we aren't able to buy a home theater as it is beyond our budget or buy a necklace that a neighbor has bought,the list can go too long.Such thoughts make us immensely restless and sad.I personally feel that once we channelize our jumbled and jostled thoughts in a poised mode we feel light and contented.Think about what you have and others don't have.You will be glad once you get appropriate answer to the question.A fine example to understand is that you are standing in a queue which consists of 10 people.4 stand ahead of you but always remember 5 stand behind you.
The most discouraging factor that troubles us is that due to professional commitments and domestic compulsions we aren't able to spend quality time with our family.Sunday,the day meant for leisure and pleasure is spent in doing multiple tasks but if we manage to steal some time for our family we feel recharged and rejuvenated.kids are precious and God sent angels.Think about the couples who aren't blessed with kids.It simply means that you are fortunate to have them.Enjoy this bliss wholeheartedly because once they leave the nest for higher studies you will face empty nest syndrome. Vacant hours will haunt you.Be positive in life.Positivity gives us a better view to perceive things.I agree money is an indispensable instrument which multiplies Joys in life but money has no potential to buy all happiness.If it had been true that rich would be always happy but is it so?Think over it.You are the one who has to paddle your family's canoe and change the house to a home,blessed home.Your perception directly or indirectly makes a powerful impact on your family.If you are seeking happiness,it resolves around you.